Rape. It is a touchy subject for everybody. In the news there is a lawyer defending a man who raped a woman 7 years ago. The best defense this man could possibly come up for this man was that she was not a victim of rape and lied about the process simply because 7 years after the incident, she put up a profile picture of her smiling up on her myspace. So his message to any rape victim is that you should stay miserable, and never ever smile in pictures because it’s absolutely sufficient that you never move forward because you’re a liar if you smile EVER.
Now here is something else I would like to bring to light and it is part of the reason why I decided to take up a camera and start “youtubing.” That is the awareness of young rapists. You can tell me to shut the fuck up about this all you want, but all of you can kiss my ass because as time goes by, I get more exposure to blog about whatever the fuck I want. I do believe that a young rapist is most dangerous to youths because they inevitably have friends.
Now I want to ask you how well do you really know your friend? Is he really that much of a good friend? How long have you known him? Would you be so quickly to believe him based on the span amount of time that you’ve known him? We have parents in this world who have no idea what the fuck their kids are up to and when they finally realize it, they’re devastated. So saying that you “know him” and that he “wouldn’t do that” is not a valid reason to trust anyone.
More often then not a young girl is sexually assaulted by someone they trusted, knew.. By someone with a bunch of friends who claimed that they knew him well. He can easily use his friends to back him up or use god as a means of getting “innocence points” or use his friend’s knowledge of his “timidness” and tendencies to be “the quiet guy”. For all his friends know he couldn’t possibly be a terrible sexual predator, but readers. These quiet types are the most dangerous. They’re smart and they can manipulate his friends into believing his innocence and terrorize the victim by calling her a liar.
How good do you think they feel about themselves when they realize that they were wrong about her? That they terrorized someone they didn’t know or care to understand. Heartless because they only believe what they are told to believe. What they don’t know is that their friend, has a sexual assault charge under his belt and is hiding it. Very well I might add. Ever wonder why he hasn’t come out to play? Have you considered the possibility? Any possibilities? All you see is a friend. Any negative connotation seems unheard of. What a terrible waste it is to be un-observant. The young rapist and his friends have terrorized an innocent victim.
Would you give up your beliefs to trust someone you don’t even know anymore? Answer me this. Where is he now? and When was the last time you had a good chat with him? Most importantly, Do you really know him anymore? These people should look at what they’ve become. A bunch or heartless hypocrites. When they see a woman being raped by someone they don’t know it’s believable and a terrible crime. But it’s unheard of to think their friend has done the same and all of a sudden, intimidating the victim to deter her from justice she as a victim deserves. Turning into bullies, calling her a liar to protect a friend? Does that even make sense when all a long, a real liar would not go to all the trouble of getting the authorities involved. A liar will be just that. A liar. No action, no NOTHING.
It should make you sick to your stomach if you were any human. If not, then you are just in denial. How many times did you think that you can just trust your friends without a doubt? I may be perceived as cynical, but I call it being observant. You can help your friends, but there’s a difference between helping them and harassing someone for them. Don’t be oblivious to the fact that they can lie to you about something as heinous as rape. Friends are nice to have around, but like most human beings, they are out to protect themselves. Even if it means putting up a facade in front of friends. Don’t get involved in their problems. Especially something this serious.
For victims, there is a light at the end of the tunnel and you shouldn’t be scared to smile or live your life anymore. Take back your power no matter how fucked up people think you are because of what happened. What happened, doesn’t make you, you.
This is the shit guys. This Friday! You know where I’ll be. If you want a chance to party with me and get so shit faced, you won’t remember that I took a picture of your genitals and posted them on the internet somewhere so that other sexual predz can get a glimpse of your family jewels, this is your night! I’m pretty cool so come chat me up or something. Get your B grades or stilettes out and get your ass out to see AYRES rock the crowd with his awesomeness.
As you may have noticed, I’ve added a few things for you guys to enjoy while you’re here visitting my weird little ass. First there’s the art gallery for you guys to get inside my little attention deprived head. And I just wanted to share a bit of my art to you guys because some of you guys need culture in your lives! I also added an event gallery that is filled with pictures of parties that I’ve been to and famous people that I’ve been so fortunate enough to meet. Thought it would give you guys a clue to come down to parties that tell you to come down to because they’re worth it. It’s also to gloat at skeptical ass bitches that front on the fact that I definitely know ‘where the party at’. Contrary to popular beliefs, I’m pretty cool.